YOU ARE WHO YOU DEAL WITH

You are what you eat,
You are what you read ....

But actually ...

You are who you deal with,
You are where you work at,
You are who you live with ....

Think abut this. You spend 8 hours for sleep on bed, 8 hours for work, 8 hours for travel from home for work return, every single day ! You, most of whom, even working longer (over time) than sleep. It means, you are where you work at ....

If you are frustrated with your job, then here you are ...
While you are so upset with your spouse, then here you are ...
So, your life is only two, your family and your work ....

Just be wise,
Everybody get anger,
Everybody get upset,
Everybody get disappointed,
Everybody get crazy,
it is so human being
it is so natural ....

But please ...
Angry wisely ....

Don't spiting out,
Don't swearing,
Don't slapping ...

If you don't like something, talk ....
If are bothered about something,
Just talk, calmly ...
Talk constructively so that you will find solution

But don't embarrassing somebody on your wall,
that 'that somebody' has never being your friend on your social network,
it is not fair, it is childish, it is boyish ....

And don't blaming somebody on your wall,
that 'that somebody' has never had a chance to clarify anything,
it is not manly ....

Even if you are not able to talk to somebody,
Talk to Allah ....

Yes, you rite
As a human being you still need a human,
that you are able to talk to ...

but as a human being too
who believe in Allah
you know how to deal with all those suffer ...

Suffer will not kill you ... 
as long as you believe in Allah
Suffer will enhance you,
suffer will lift you up,
in front of Allah's arsy

It would be good, however ...
If you do realize that situation is so unfriend,
unexpected,
Even if you do feel bleeding and wound ....
But on the contrary, you do understand that you will never doing a crazy thing ....

Because ...
There are so many reasons for you for grateful anything you have so far ...
And when you realize that there is no more that you are able to talk to ...
Allah always the right thing to be come ....

Allah never left you,
Allah never slapping you,
Allah never spitting you out ...

And you've just taken all lillahita'alla,
without passion, aim to strike it back,
by doing uneducated things as everybody has done to you ....

Just believe in Allah,
believe in Allah's kitab
that your life, starting till' the end,
has already being written,
before we're born ....

Subhanallah ....